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Temptation's Sneaky Footsteps



It’s just one small line I’ve crossed. It’s no big deal. Sure, there’s another one just up ahead, but look at everyone else. They’re comfortable climbing over it…why shouldn’t I? Then comes another…and another. Pretty soon, the lines of what we know to be right disappear.

Temptation. The call to wrongdoing. Stealth, quiet footsteps that become thundering hoof beats. The devil isn’t stupid. Many times, he starts things small…and from there, things build. Christian or not, we’re human, we’re sinful and we fail. Before long, left unchecked, temptation becomes overwhelming and can send your life spiraling out of control.

In Devotion, Kellen and Juliet are attending church one Sunday when their pastor launches into a sermon that hits home with Kellen in particular as their marriage fractures.

Pastor Gene says: “Seldom does temptation just step up and smack you over the head all at once and pull you under. That’s too obvious. Too easily rebuked. More often than not, it hits you at your weakest points. It starts small, and it builds.”

While he speaks, the pastor demonstrates the impact of temptation by fashioning a straight, smooth rope into a complex ball of tight knots.

The consequences of giving in to temptation form the theme of Devotion. What are your feelings about marital infidelity? How do you define infidelity? Is infidelity a lustful look, a kiss, a full-blown straying into an intimate relationship outside the marriage?  Have you lived through such an instance, or do you know someone who has? Consider the ramifications and impact. Consider the resolution as well. Was there reconciliation? Divorce?

Think about an instance when you found you could rebuke temptation. Next, think about times when you allowed temptation to have its way—letting it push you across lines you knew you shouldn’t approach. What were the consequences? What processes or actions healed you? If this is a continuing battle in your life right now, what measures are you taking to move beyond?


Scriptural Contemplation/Reflection:

Read Matthew 4:1-11

When it comes to battling evil, and the call of sin, do you feel like you’re alone? Do you feel like you’re past redemption? Nothing, Kellen and Juliet learn, is beyond Christ’s healing, mercy, and divine forgiveness. Not when reclamation is authentic, and embraced completely. Remember, Christ spent forty barren days in a dessert, battling the devil’s call. Christ knows, and He understands. Turn to Him and see what happens.


Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.  Hebrews 2:8 (NIV)

11 comments:

  1. Temptation is so tricky. In Devotion, Kellen equates it to "a sheet of black ice I never saw coming." In ways, he did know what was coming, he recognized the danger zones of his relationship with Chloe...but when you slip and slide and lose sight (control) of God's guidance and truth, everything becomes distorted.

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  2. That's a great illustration! Temptation is very slippery indeed. I think we all know we're not alone in our struggles, but it hardly matters when we're in one. Another person's victory over sin seems irrelevant at the time. The only thing that helps me is knowing God is strong enough to get me out if I left Him.

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  3. Oops, LET Him, not left Him =-/

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  4. Thanks, Dana! I love that illustration as well. What do you consider to be "infidelity?" I consider it, not necessarily a feeling of "attraction" -- I mean, hey, I think George Clooney is a pretty handsome dude...but I'd never stray over the line into physicality. To me, it begins with physicality.

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  5. So true! I loved this story, Marianne! It really spoke to my heart. It's so easy to let the little everyday stuff become who we are, and yeah, that's when temptation sneaks in.

    And I agree, infidelity isn't in the attraction, that's human nature, but it's in the action that follows.

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  6. Great point Donna! I'm so glad you dropped by! Blessings!

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  7. This past month, my pastor's been teaching a series on Marriage. A statement made this Sunday was in essence: "Satan's not going to come up, knock on your door, and say, 'Hey there, I'm Satan and I've come to destroy your marriage.' NO. He comes as an angel of light. He comes seeking to kill, steal, and destroy." If he was blatant in his prowling around our marriage, we'd certainly run him out. BUT because he's subtle, and a liar basing his lies on elements of truth, we are easily deceived -- if not on guard.

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  8. To me infidelity means a lack of loyalty, and I think that can happen in far more ways than sexual. To me, adultery is actual sexual intercourse with one not your spouse. I do not believe I could reconcile after adultery. That's a terrible betrayal of trust. A lack of loyalty maybe you could fix, depending on how he/she hurt you.

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  9. Karls, that sounds just like a sermon Pastor Gene preaches in the pages of Devotion - great analogy, because it's so darn TRUE!! Glad you paid a visit!!

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  10. Tanya, I agree. And, there are nuances to adultery (as I found out as I wrote this book...) and there are shades of gray that need to be reconciled and, at minimum, addressed in prayerful, intense counseling, if a marriage comes upon this situation. Love the points you made! Blessings, my friend!

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