That said, take it away, Lisa!!
*****
The beautiful love in Song of Solomon. Nearly makes me blush.
A story of rich, full, tender, and touching love. Very touching. It’s a Biblical kind of marriage and what I want for us. I want to enjoy a deep and passionate love with my husband.
And why not?
He's all mine and I'm all his. Just like the Bible says.
For I've found him whom my soul loves (Song of Solomon 3:4).
50 Ways to Love Him
1. Kiss him on the lips. Every day. For a long time.
2. Slip a love note into his lunch.
3. Snuggle into him. Any chance you get.
4. Dress up. Wear something you feel pretty in.
5. Wrap your arms around his neck.
6. Smile at him with all your heart.
7. Turn up the music and slow down the dance.
8. Wake him in the morning with a kiss.
9. Give him a knowing wink from across the way.
10. Arrange for a sitter. Then go somewhere special.
11. Go to bed early. Together.
12. Listen sympathetically to his day.
13. Hold hands. Whenever you can.
14. Write a message on his bathroom mirror.
15. Laugh at his jokes. No matter how many times you've heard them.
16. Run your fingers through his hair.
17. Fix him his favorite foods.
18. Talk late into the night.
19. Reach out and touch him. Often.
20. Send him a text. That would make him smile.
21. Whisper secrets in his ear.
22. Enjoy his company. Just 'cause you like him.
23. Go for a long walk. Arm in arm.
24. Plan special surprises for him.
25. Look for little ways to delight him.
26. Let him know how much you missed him while he was gone.
27. Seek to be together any time you can.
28. Greet him with an adoring smile.
29. Offer him a back rub.
30. Leave no doubt of your devotion.
31. Tell him about the attraction. You feel for him.
32. Let your fingers do the talking.
33. Prepare a picnic. Then head over to the park.
34. Cuddle up on the couch and watch an old movie.
35. Turn the lights down low.
36. Sneak away to a nearby cafe.
37. Walk outside on a clear night. And stare at the stars together.
38. Light up when he enters the room.
39. Brush your lips against his forehead.
40. Bake cookies and deliver them to his work. Personally, if possible.
41. Speak in that sweet tone. Saved just for him.
42. Chase the kids off his lap. To make room for you.
43. Call him up. Just to say, I love you.
44. Sing him a love song.
45. Sit on the porch. And watch the world go by.
46. Lay your head on his strong shoulders.
47. Thank God for him. Every day.
48. Light a small fire. Deep in his heart.
49. Look lovingly into his eyes.
50. Fall asleep in his arms. Whenever possible.
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I love all of these, truly! Numbers 6,34 and 50 are a few of my favs!! What are yours???
ReplyDeleteGood advice!
ReplyDeleteVery sweet. I love these...but he'd cringe if I sang, and he's so OCD, writing on his mirror would be unwise LOL. I do #47 all the time, since I nearly lost him and we just got the "cure" word from his onco. Yippee. Love you, Marianne. xo
ReplyDeleteAwesome ideas, and watching an old movie is one of our favorites, walking in the woods, sending texts, and I do love when he walks into the room even after 30 years.
ReplyDeleteI agree, Linda - wonderful things to take with us into our relationships - just to add a touch of spark and, yes, devotion! ;-)
ReplyDeleteLove you right back, Tanya - and your hubby's continuing victory over cancer is so inspiring!! #47 - ain't it the truth? :-) So glad you stopped by! Blessings!
ReplyDeleteHi, T Forehand, and thanks for the visit! I'm really glad you enjoyed the post! Texts are such fun! The DH and I do that quite frequently as well - and, I'm tickled to meet another member of the 30 year anniversary club! We just celebrated our third decade this past July! Congrats to you! Blessings~
ReplyDeleteI thank him for being fodder for my Facebook page posts. They are some of my most popular posts. :O)
ReplyDeleteAlready do many of these, but found some AWESOME ideas I shall try out tonight. :-)
ReplyDeleteWhat a delightful post full of wonderful ideas to keep the marriage relationship alive and "sparkly"! Love is nothing if not something that requires intentionality. Devotion and wholehearted commitment in the relationship calls for ACTION to maintain and sustain love like God has designed marriage to be...and these are some tremendous suggestions! I love them all but personally gravitate to 27, 47 and 50. I would also add that praying together, sharing Scripture and reading books aloud to each other are ways to connect and bond the relationship like nothing else can! Thanks for sharing this post...absolutely LOVE it!
ReplyDeleteHi, Zoe! I chuckled at your comment, because as my DH will tell you, he's the inspiration behind a good number of my facebook posts as well!! :-) So glad you stopped by - God bless!
ReplyDeleteHi, Dora! :-D Keep up the GREAT work on reinforcing your precious marriage. I've had the honor of meeting you both and seeing you both, and you're AMAZING. Blessings to you always!!!!
ReplyDeleteHi, Sheila!! Yay!! Your comments are coming through! (I know you were concerned! <3 )
ReplyDeleteYou are so inspiring in so many ways! You and Kurt are amazing, and I'm blessed by your presence in my life!! You nailed it on saying action is what keeps the relationship going. You can't "wish" for wonderful relationship and forward progress, like anything of worth, it takes time, effort and commitment. Why, oh why, are so many people losing sight of that and leaving that truth behind in the face of what might "SEEM" to be easier, better, more fulfilling? ::head scratch:: Love to you, and so glad you stopped by and shared!!